The popular song says, “Diamonds are a Girl’s Best Friend.” This is not true. Diamonds can be lost, stolen or damaged. In these modern times, credibility built on verifiable achievements is what helps people succeed.

The recent passage of the Lily Ledbetter legislation put women on equal footing with men regarding pay. However, this only counts when the women are truly equal in performance and credentials. Both are the key to success. However, performance can be relative and subjective. It can be a judgement call, made by a superior, collegues or anyone in an organization. Tons of variables affect performance.

Not so with credentials, these stay true no matter what economy, social conventions or biases dictate. Ten years ago a colleague told me to get a Masters, and I was skeptical. Now I have a BA in English and a MA in Business Communications. Those degrees support my current work and help me perform better. They also allow me the flexibility to call my own shots.

I also have certifications unique to my field of training and performance improvement. These help me work faster and better than others in my field. Women never could get away with being complacent. When the chips fall, all you got is you!!

The point is, get an education, never stop learning and stay fresh. Keep running with the big boys and it will pay off. Never settle. You're just as good as anyone else, including men, but only if you stay ahead of the wave. "Chance favors the prepared mind," quoted Louis Pasteur. If you're prepared, chance is just the odds. You go girls!!! Get creds and live free!